Are you being abused?

• Are you frightened of your partner’s temper and afraid to disagree?
  
  
• Has your partner used force to prevent you from leaving a room, car or other area?
  
  
• Do you not see friends or family because of your partner’s jealousy?
  
  
• Does your partner make you justify everything you do, every place you go and everyone you talk to?
  
  
• Has your partner threatened to harm or kill you or him/herself if you leave the relationship?

Are you abusive?

• Do you regularly ridicule, criticize or insult your partner?
  
  
• Do you sometimes become violent when you drink and/or use drugs?
  
  
• Have you ruined or broken your partner’s possessions or thrown things at him/her?
  
  
• Have you ever forced your partner to have sex or made him/her afraid to refuse?
  
  
• Do you constantly call or text message your partner to check up on him/her?